Getting married without participating in some form of premarital counseling is like attempting to fly an airplane without training. Most of us would laugh at the idea of getting in the cockpit without some knowledge. Couples all believe someone else will be the one to divorce. The reality is, last year 60% of marriages ended in divorce. Premarital counseling is not a luxury, it’s a necessity. Couples who receive premarital counseling are 30% less likely to get divorced.

What topics are discussed?

• Communication/Conflict resolution
• Intimacy/Expectation and Sexuality
• Finances/Goal Setting
• Family of Origin
• What to expect in the First Year

ANY ISSUE THAT ARISES DURING THE COURSE OF COUNSELING!

What's the difference between getting premarital counseling through my church or from a licensed professional counselor?
All couples are different and have a variety of experiences and expectations. Many church premarital programs are done in a group format. Group format can be a wonderful experience but usually do not focus on the individual needs of your relationship. During the course of counseling many private issues arise and couples often feel their confidentiality remains more intact with someone outside of their church setting. In some large group formats and churches, the presenters are not state licensed therapists. A state licensed therapist has many years of education and is specifically trained to deal with counseling related issues. I provide my clients with a Christian perspective which incorporates my education, training and life experience.

How many times do we have to go and when should we start?
The ideal time to start premarital counseling is when you first get engaged. Couples who wait often find that the rush of getting married leaves no time or money for counseling. The bottom line is, regardless of when you start premarital counseling is a necessity, not a luxury. Premarital Counseling at Richardson Counseling Services consist of six sessions for most couples. There are some couples who may require more sessions due to relationship complications.

How much does it cost?
Premarital counseling sessions cost $100-$120 per sessions. If you pay for all your sessions up front I offer a 10% discount. I also guarantee you one FREE follow-up session after being married for one year. The follow-up session is a way to refresh concepts learned during premarital counseling and to discuss any new issues.